Obviously, growing a pair of balls is the first step.
You shouldn't be bothered about what your wife thinks, even less about loss of face of a low level Immigration employee who has given you duff information.
Understand the rules, prepare your paperwork and go boldly into Surin Immigration - without your wife; this is a retirement extension application and does not require her presence.
You gave me a good belly laugh over my morning coffee, lucky I was between sips. You have given me many digs for my confrontations at SI. over time.
(Your digs well warranted mind you)
I will never get over that mental bitch shuffling paper work and looking down all the while hurling abuse at me and my wife that was totaly deaf at the time.
I did say "You know I am sitting here, and can understand every word your saying" But it did not stop. That was the day she made me wait to closing time and made all the rest of the staff uncomfortable.
What put this bitch into over drive was me pushing the point to her boss. You see I had a fresh Kor Ror 2 Friday and it was now Monday. I could of got divorced on the weekend when the Amphur office was closed after 20 years of marriage just before I go to Immigration. I told the supervisor if he agrees with this stupid precept I will place an official complaint to HO Immi One "WHERE I AM BANNED TO GO" But that's another story. Please nobody spit their coffee.
I am just now compiling my visa extension based on marriage now. I cannot wait for the next round and will even go to Kap Cheong just for the entertainment.
I just don't give a shit. They can throw me out if they like for my bad attitude. Only draw back is the wife will not like it. Come to think of it this is why wives don't kick up over insults thrown their way. They fear what might happen if they tell hubby. My wife included does not say anything.
PS
The most horrid insults I ever heard were to another couple in front of us a long while back this IO was saying these horrid things to this woman with her hubby sitting along side he was smiling all the while to not let on and the poor lass was just expressionless. Is it really necessary to say to a girls face "Do you enjoy whoring yourself out to this foreigner" and much worse. The rest of the office staff just look down in shame when this happens. Hopefully this culture is changing.
I WISH I WAS MAKING ALL THIS UP! But it is all true.
See once I start I cannot stop. I hate the people that perpetrate this shite. Let me iterate it is only a few that are like this.
Nobody likes a smart Arse !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!